Wanting different things in life (kids, moving for work etc). For me, it’s the eventual realisation that we are actually not that compatible. Sometimes it gradually builds, you don’t take note of the small things at first because you can easily explain them away, but ultimately you don’t forget. They’ve ended over me having mentally checked out. Honestly, my past relationships haven’t ended over anything catastrophic like cheating, addiction etc. And if you are not alone you will never meet the person you are suppose to be with! And it was better to be alone than to be in whatever that was. When I hear about people in these quasi toxic/codependent relationships I feel so bad for them. And I feel really bad for making someone feel that way about themselves. Who wants to be what someone settled for? It’s cruel. It’s cruel and makes us feel like we will never be good enough. No one should only get to be with someone because they are scared to be alone. No one deserves to feel resentment from someone or feel like they are being judged. I feel like being in relationships where we do not love our partner is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.
I honestly believe we both have the closure we needed. He emailed me a week before the wedding congratulating me but more so thanking me. We hadn’t talked since I had reconnected with my now husband. I didn’t know that love could feel this way. Now we are married and have a healthy happy baby girl. Later on once I was strong in my sobriety, I ended up reconnecting with an old friend from high school who also had stopped drinking around the same time I did. He looked like he was chewing a ham sandwich he was grinding his teeth so hard. I came home and the house was so unbelievably clean, and I had my cash missing (I was a bartender). But one month after I stopped drinking, I kicked him out. I decided to stop drinking and it was like the veil had lifted. After a couple of years of it I decided I had enough. Header Image by ooOIndreOoo of DeviantArt This subreddit welcomes all women, except TERFs. Remember the positive spirit of TheGirlSurvivalGuide and keep in mind the sitewide reddiquette guidelines. Be nice, respectful, helpful, and friendlyĭon't insult people or their good intentions even if a person seems ill-informed. General discussion on topics related to hair/make-up/skincare/personal style can be posted at any time, but keep any specific and personal requests for advice to the designated theme day.Ĭheck out our list of related subs below under the heading of ''Beauty'' for help and advice on any day of the week.Ĩ. Posts asking for help with hair/make-up/skincare/hair removal/personal style are limited to Fabulous Fridays.Īny hair/make-up/skincare/hair removal/personal style related posts on other days will be removed with a gentle reminder that they can be posted on Fridays. General discussion on topics related to fashion can be posted at any time, but keep any specific and personal requests for advice to the designated theme day.Ĭheck out our list of related subs below under the heading of ''Fashion'' for help and advice on any day of the week.ħ. Posts asking for help with outfits or fashion decisions are limited to Wardrobe WednesdaysĪny outfit or fashion advice posts on other days will be removed with a gentle reminder that they can be posted on Wednesdays. If it is an emergency, go to urgent care or the emergency room.Ħ. We care about your health and that is precisely why we ask that you please see a doctor. Please refrain from requesting medical help.No requesting medical help, only general tips If it’s about your specific issue, it’s not quite right for this sub. Relationships include romantic, platonic, family, or work relationships.No requesting relationship advice, only general tips TGSG enforces the self promotion guidelines.Ĥ. Comments with relevant sources are acceptable. blogs, YouTube channels, products, etc), we ask that you don't advertise in the form of a post. If you have an interesting outside source to share (e.g.Please check to see if your tip/request has been previously posted.Your post title should therefore contain one of the following words: Tip, Request, Help, ?, Discussion, or Review.įor better archives / flair search function we encourage using the more specific subject matter post flair - more info here
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